WOW – so much has been going on the last couple of weeks, months (maybe years!)…..
College kids home… warm weather bringing family trips… business travel coming… some not entirely minor medical things going on in our family… new work out routines (because being healthy matters)… not to mention another fairly milestony-ish birthday coming … intentional time for family and friends… stuff…. lots and lots of stuff.
See, I love to be busy. I love time with people I love. Serving and loving my people is deep in the core of my soul’s desires. Conquering plans and objectives keeps my clock ticking. I don’t know exactly what I would do if I wasn’t so actively doing stuff that I fell exhausted into bed every night. Yet. Ahhh, yet, I know my spirit needs to be alone. I am learning that so much of me loves to be outside myself in action to others, while an equally large part of me needs desperately to be alone, refueling. And finding that balance is very very hard for me. What about you?
Learning to say no to others can be so painfully difficult – I don’t know how really. My close people continually tell me I need to learn to say “No”. But so often I wonder am I saying “yes” to the wrong things? Or “no” to the right things? Everything matters in some way, yes I do believe this. Even still, in the perspective of the kingdom purpose, how much does everything little thing matter? When does God want me to say “no” or “yes”? In this lies my true balance issue.
Our church is having a long awaiting new campus grand opening tomorrow, June 5th. And there has been a myriad of things to do by so many to prepare for what God has coming. I see my closest people working tirelessly and wishing there was something, however minor, I could do to lighten their load. To be their “yes” when God has so clearly told them it is not time to say “no”. I know the Lord of all things guides them, carries and sustains them. I yearn to stand beside them holding their tired arms like Aaron and Hur did for Moses. [Exodus 17:12]
I know for sure this is not just stuff. This is kingdom driven. This is the Holy Spirit calling on His people to stand up. To fight for exactly such a time as this. This is most certainly not my “No”. Everything else, regardless of my “yes” or “no” will work itself out, when my “yes” to serving my Lord and Savior comes first. Here I will find my peace.
So the chaos is exciting and a noisy kind of busy and sometimes a little suffocating too. I pray for contentment in the storm of activity, refreshing deep breaths when I feel I can’t breathe and an ever-present still quiet voice resounding through the stuffyness of the stuff. Wishing only to keep my eyes on Jesus, I will seek His direction for my “yeses” and my “noes”. Won’t you do the same with me?
In His Grip, Ashlee.
Pray with me: Dear Heavenly Father God, We love you so much and are humbled to come before you. Thank you for all you have done for us and will do for us. God, we ask for clear direction in the chaos of this life. Help us keep perspective focused on you. May we clearly have peace in all that we are to do and the things we are to lay aside. Make us soldiers for your eternal purposes. In Jesus name, Amen.